The truth about intimate waxing

Nobody walks into their first intimate wax feeling relaxed, and I understand why. It feels personal, you do not know what to expect, and the internet is full of horror stories. But waxing is where Sirens started, and after thousands of treatments I can tell you the reality: a good intimate wax, done properly with the right products, is quick, professional and far more comfortable than you fear. Most first-timers leave saying the same thing: that was nothing like I expected.

One more thing before we start. Sirens is a gender-neutral salon. We describe our waxing by body area, not by who you are, because everyone deserves to feel comfortable booking. Every body is welcome here.

What actually happens at your appointment

You will have a private, unhurried appointment with an experienced therapist who does this every single day. We talk you through everything first, you are covered as much as possible throughout, and you can ask us to pause at any point. There is no judgement about hair, bodies, or anything else. We have genuinely seen it all, and we care about one thing: doing a thorough, comfortable job.

We use Perron Rigot wax, a premium French hot wax made for sensitive and intimate areas. It sets on the hair rather than gripping the skin, which is the difference between the wincing you have seen in films and the treatment we actually do. Combined with proper technique (taut skin, the right direction, no rushing), it makes an enormous difference to comfort.

The myths that keep people away

Most of the fear around intimate waxing comes from myths. Here are the ones I hear most, and the truth behind them.

It is unbearably painful

With hot wax designed for intimate areas and a therapist who knows what they are doing, it is a short, sharp sensation that fades in seconds, and it gets easier every time as the hair grows back finer. The horror stories almost always involve the wrong wax, the wrong technique, or both.

It is embarrassing

For you, maybe, for the first five minutes of your first visit. For us, it is Tuesday. Your therapist does this all day, every day, with total professionalism. We keep you covered where possible, we chat if you want distraction and stay quiet if you prefer, and the awkwardness disappears far faster than you think.

Shaving is easier

Easier today, worse forever. Shaving gives you stubble within days, plus irritation and ingrown hairs. Waxing removes hair from the root, keeps you smooth for weeks, and over time the hair grows back softer and sparser. Once people switch, they very rarely go back to the razor.

Intimate waxing is only for women

Waxing is for every body. We are a gender-neutral salon and we describe treatments by body area rather than gender. The one treatment we do not offer is intimate waxing for male anatomy, but every other waxing service, from brows to backs to legs, is open to absolutely everyone.

You just turn up and hope

A little preparation transforms the experience. Let the hair grow to about half a centimetre (roughly two to three weeks from shaving), exfoliate gently the day before, wear loose comfortable clothing, and avoid caffeine right before if you are nervous. We will tell you everything else when you book.

Book your wax

Every body is welcome here

We operate a gender-neutral policy at Sirens, and we have been careful with every word on this page because language matters. Our waxing menu is organised by body area (legs, underarms, brows, back, chest, intimate) rather than by gender, so nobody has to fit themselves into a box to book a treatment. If you are trans or non-binary, you are welcome here, full stop, and you will be treated with the same warmth and professionalism as every other client.

To be clear about what we offer: we provide every body waxing service to all clients, including Hollywood and Brazilian intimate waxing. The only treatment we do not offer is intimate waxing for male anatomy. If you are ever unsure whether a treatment is right for you, just ask when you book, and we will talk it through kindly and without any awkwardness.

Aftercare: the part most people skip

The 48 hours after your wax matter as much as the wax itself. Skip the gym, hot baths, saunas, swimming and sunbathing for 24 to 48 hours, because freshly waxed follicles are open and warm environments invite irritation. Wear loose clothing, keep the area clean, and avoid perfumed products on the area.

From about three days after your wax, gentle exfoliating two or three times a week is the single best thing you can do to prevent ingrown hairs, paired with a light moisturiser to keep the skin supple. Then rebook for three to four weeks later. Regular waxing on a cycle is what gets you the finer, sparser regrowth and the easiest appointments.

Why trust Sirens with your wax?

Waxing is where Sirens started, thousands of treatments since 2012
Premium Perron Rigot hot wax, made for sensitive areas
Strict hygiene, fresh spatulas, no double dipping, ever
A gender-neutral salon where every body is welcome
Over 40 industry awards and hundreds of five-star reviews
Private, unhurried appointments with experienced therapists

Clients come to us in Durham Market Place for waxing that is thorough, comfortable and completely without judgement, and they come back because it stays that way, visit after visit.

Intimate waxing questions, answered honestly

What is the difference between a Hollywood and a Brazilian wax?

A Brazilian removes most of the hair but leaves a neat strip or triangle at the front. A Hollywood removes everything. Both include the intimate area; the difference is simply how much hair you choose to keep.

How long does my hair need to be for waxing?

About half a centimetre, which is usually two to three weeks of growth after shaving. If it is too short the wax cannot grip, so resist the urge to trim or shave before your appointment.

Does intimate waxing hurt?

Less than you fear. We use Perron Rigot hot wax, which is designed for sensitive areas and sets on the hair rather than the skin. You feel a short, sharp sensation that fades in seconds, and it gets noticeably easier with regular waxing.

Can I be waxed during my period?

Yes, with a fresh tampon or cup. The skin can be slightly more sensitive in the days around your period, so if you can book for another point in your cycle you may find it more comfortable, but it is entirely up to you.

Do you offer male intimate waxing?

We do not offer intimate waxing for male anatomy. Every other waxing service, including backs, chests, legs and brows, is available to everyone. We are a gender-neutral salon and organise our menu by body area, so all clients, including trans and non-binary clients, can book comfortably.

How long do the results last?

Around three to four weeks of smoothness. With regular waxing the hair grows back finer and sparser, so it gets better, and easier, over time.